My Love is like a Red Red Rose


Posted on July 31, 2014 by Judy | Filed under: Celebrant, Funerals


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I love the stories of people’s lives, and I feel so privileged to be entrusted with them when I am writing the funeral service.

Today, I led the funeral ceremony and graveside burial for a well-loved long-time Banbury resident. This gentleman bought his wife a red rose for their first wedding anniversary, and 2 red roses for their second wedding anniversary, 3 for the 3rd and so on. Isn’t that romantic? He did this every year, until their ruby wedding anniversary (40 years later) – by then it was getting very expensive, buying red roses in January.

Today, this gentleman’s lovely wife had arranged for the most magnificent display of perfect red roses on his coffin – they were truly breathtaking.

This was her loving gift to him, after 62 years, 58 of them as husband and wife. Such a moving tribute – it reminded me of Robbie Burns beautiful love song:

“My Love Is Like A Red Red Rose”

Oh, my love is like a red, red rose
That’s newly sprung in June
Oh, my love is like a melody
That’s sweetly played in tune
As fair art thou, my bonnie lass,
So deep in love am I
And I will love thee still, my dear,
Till all the seas gang dry.
Till all the seas gang dry, my dear,
Till all the seas gang dry
And I will love thee still, my dear,
Till all the seas gang dry.